Urethritis that my boyfriend doesn't understand

When it comes to urethritis, many adult women have experienced it. It is a urinary tract infection caused by non-sexually transmitted bacteria, mainly caused by Escherichia coli (about 80%) or other gastrointestinal bacteria such as Staphylococcus aureus, Enterococcus faecalis, Pseudomonas aeruginosa, etc., which cause inflammation in the urethra. Symptoms of urinary tract infection include frequent urination, painful and red urination, cloudy urine, and reduced urine volume, with only a small amount of urine being excreted each time, or even bloody. Severe urethritis may also cause fever, stuffiness, vomiting, and may also infect the kidneys, with consequences that can be serious or minor.

There are many causes of urethritis. Since the length of the female urethra is only one-third of that of the male urethra, bacteria in the anus can easily enter the bladder directly, causing bladder infection and then flow upward to the kidneys. The female urethra is very close to the anus, and E. coli from the anus can go back through the urethra to the bladder, causing bacterial infection. There are also a small number of other routes of infection, such as catheterization or long-term placement of a urinary catheter. In some cases, the bacteria can spread up to the kidneys and even through the bloodstream, endangering the entire body.

In addition to the above reasons, work pressure alone can cause urethritis in women. However, according to my observation, urethritis is more often caused by sexual intercourse. The impact of all parties not only stimulates the sexual organs, but also sends bacteria into the female urethra... It's embarrassing to say the cause, and I'm afraid of being looked down upon when I go to the doctor🙄️ In order to avoid repeating the same mistakes, I have combined my years of experience to share with you the common defensive moves to prevent urethritis🤜

Five ways to prevent urethritis

1. You must, must, must pee immediately after having sex! !

After sex, the area around your genitals is covered with love fluid and bacteria. If you don't deal with them immediately, they can easily take advantage of the situation and enter. Of course, you may be very tired and want to snuggle up with your boyfriend, or even have your boyfriend hold you tightly and want to continue in a few minutes. But if you don't want to end up in the emergency room due to urethritis a day later, it's best to make up your mind and go to the toilet to pee to flush away a certain amount of bacteria. To be safer, take a shower immediately!

2. Please don't lick boys who give you oral sex. Girls will feel loved and of course welcome it, but! ! ! If your partner's tongue touches your butt and then kisses your genitals, it is easy to bring E. coli into your vagina😑... One way is to always keep a cup of mouthwash by the bed, and ask your boyfriend to constantly sterilize his tongue during the process (but this is a bit of a downer...) Another way is to leave the tongue battle to the end, from front to back, and ask your boyfriend not to touch any other part of your body after touching your butt with his tongue... There are also girls who are afraid of the dark because they have seen ghosts, so they simply ask their boyfriends not to touch their anus again.

3. Please do not intrude

The stimulation of sexual activity is also a big problem. Compared with the tongue, fingers and penis constantly entering and exiting the vagina and buttocks are more dangerous, and the chance of urethritis is extremely high! Although you won’t get pregnant if the penis enters the anus, you still need to wear a condom to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted diseases. If the penis enters the vagina again afterwards, remember to change the condom, otherwise you will be carrying a lot of E. coli 🤮😓! !

As for fingers, because they are flexible in movement, people often ignore the threat they pose. Just like tongues, if your partner wants to stimulate the buttocks, it is best to leave this procedure to the end. Some girls have very short urethras, which are particularly prone to infection, so their partners need to clean and disinfect their fingers in a timely manner - it's the same old story, no matter how unpleasant it is, it's better than waiting in line for 5 hours in the emergency room the next day.

4. Change underwear and bed sheets regularly

It’s an old saying, if you don’t even change your underwear, no one can help you. There are also many hidden bacteria on the sheets (especially after sex). People who like to sleep naked should be more careful and try to avoid wearing tight or non-breathable pants!

5. Use a mild yet effective cleaning solution

When cleaning the vagina after sex, some sisters use ordinary soap and cleansing liquid, which makes the sensitive vagina feel burning, irritated, and even painful after sex. I like to use Love Dear Women's Special 0⁺ Private Skin Shower Gel Moisturizing Fragrance Edition , which has 98% natural ingredients and can soothe the skin against strong odor, secretions, and dryness in the private parts, allowing girls to enjoy the entire love process without burden😌😌😌