It is said that Sassy once went to a female friend's house, sat down on her bed, and found a hard object under the quilt...Huh? It turned out to be a small massager. You know, even if you are old friends, you won’t particularly want to touch someone’s dick. But my friend said that the dick was only used to lose weight. She insisted that she had never masturbated in her life and didn’t know how to masturbate. I looked at her who was over 30 years old and opened my mouth: Seriously?!
How common is female masturbation?
Many statistics indicate that more than half of women have had experience with masturbation during their teenage years, while some women only start masturbating regularly and learn how to reach orgasm after their first sexual intercourse. Men have never been shy about discussing masturbation or sexual fantasies since they were young, but female friends don't often discuss masturbation. However, according to Sassy's female friends who masturbate (and admit it openly), they can reach orgasm on their own 9.9 times out of 10. This depends on their understanding of how to caress, touch and stimulate themselves to bring pleasure to the body, and the help of sex toys is even more complementary.
Masturbation vs Sex
Sad but true, they also pointed out that compared to masturbation, the success rate of reaching orgasm when having sex with a partner is often only 1/10, 1/20, 1/100... or even zero! Sexual intercourse does not necessarily give you an orgasm, and masturbation can more stably achieve the desired pleasure. Of course, this does not mean that women do not need their partners to participate in the interaction. The point is: if you don’t understand yourself, you can’t guide the other person to understand you better! Only by being honest about your needs can you tell your partner how to make you feel comfortable during sex, dare to express your preferences, increase your orgasm success rate, and improve the quality of intimacy between your partners!
Small toys can also be a good way to relieve stress
AV films often portray masturbating women as being sexually hungry, but in reality, in addition to masturbating out of fantasy, desire, or even longing for the partner, women may simply masturbate to relieve stress. From a scientific point of view, many women can clearly feel the release of joyful "dopamine" in their brains when they reach orgasm through masturbation, which makes them feel their breathing becomes smoother, their bodies twitch, and they feel ecstasy, and then they enter a state of calm and tranquility. This is much better than spending money on a facial or a spa! So Sassy really can’t imagine how women who have never tried masturbation can miss out on this great paradise in life!
There are many different ways to masturbate, from clean fingers to toys of various shapes. The most important thing is to find the method that you feel most comfortable and suitable for! If you are a beginner at masturbation, don’t worry, the following tips can help you achieve your wish and find your ideal climax.
1) The sipper is awesome!
Beginners may be wary of "penetrative" vibrators. In addition to using their hands, you can start with a smaller massager that stimulates the clitoris (rather than the vagina)! Sassy sincerely recommends the Womanizer Classic 2 Clitoral Pleasure Sucker ! The Womanizer Classic 2 clitoral pleasure suction device uses the revolutionary innovative Pleasure Air Technology, allowing women to easily reach orgasm in a short time.
Although it’s a bit expensive, several sisters who have bought it said it’s worth the money! It uses pleasure air technology to suck and massage through soft air vibrations, stimulating the clitoris in the most gentle and delicate way. Just imagining it will make you blush><! And it has a mute function, so you can ensure privacy and enjoy me time! Finally, we have to mention its Afterglow function. Just short-press the button when the climax comes, and it will return to the lowest setting, just like an exciting piece of music ending easily, leaving an infinite aftertaste.
2) Try adding lubricant?
When your body is aroused, your vagina will naturally secrete lubricant, making masturbation smoother and more enjoyable... No? Don't worry, there are always unexpected things. You can prepare lubricants to ensure a smooth process. The scent of the lubricant can also add a lot of pleasure to you.
3) Order by mail now and take the first step bravely!
The quickest and most embarrassing way to get sex goods is by mail order! Waddy Store pays attention to the privacy of customers and keeps packaging confidential. Customers can pick up the goods at their respective pick-up points, which is safe and convenient!
